Sunday, October 25, 2009

Somewhere Over the Rainbow

While we were visiting at my Mom's for her birthday, the weekend after the festivities were over, the three of us (Mom, Bruce and I) went out for a little drive around the bay and looked at all the expensive homes. It was a gorgeous day, it was mild, the sun was shining, and we enjoyed the drive. Afterwards we went out for supper to Applebees. While we were there it clouded over and we had a very sudden downpour! It rained so hard but it also turned sunny and the storm turned into a sun shower. This happened just as we were leaving the restaurant. But we got to see the most incredible rainbow!! And... I had my camera with me for once!!


This rainbow had to have been the largest, brightest, and longest lasting rainbow I have ever seen. I got several good shots of it.

The above photo was taken from the car while driving with the window down. It seemed to be at it's brightest and widest at that point in time.

It even turned into a double rainbow!!I also got a couple of shots of the sky from inside the car while we were driving. It was so interesting looking.



The happy camper............

The last two shots are of Bruce who found his own private pot of gold at the end of the rainbow!!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

I Wish You Enough


Recently I overheard a Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the Father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'

The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'

They kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'

'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.

'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?'

He began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone..' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.................................




I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear




I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more




I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting




I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger




I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting



I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess




I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good- bye................................

To my dear friends and family... I wish you enough!


LOVE FROM KAREN

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Mom's 80th Was a Huge Success!!

We are back home after a very busy week spent at my Mom's, celebrating her 80th birthday. It was a whirlwind of celebrations and visiting with family. We drove down the day before the big event and it poured rain most of the trip. On top of that we chose a different route and it turned out to be a very long drive... longer than usual :-(

But... we finally arrived.

This is a photo of the birthday girl... an amazingly youthful and beautiful lady..................
The day of Mom's birthday we met up with other family members at Kelseys for a luncheon. There was supposed to be about eight of us in total but Mom had two surprise guests... Taylor and Gwen ( my Uncle Doug and Aunt Marg's daughter-in-law and grandson) which brought the total to ten! A very nice turnout. My aunt Verna who I mentioned in the previous post turned 90 the week before and who very recently had hip surgery felt well enough to come and her son Grant graciously elected to bring her so they were there with us! I was so thrilled to get to see my aunt there and looking so well and we had a nice visit. Here is the lovely lady also looking very youthful and healthy....

Grant and Allan..............

My Mom's brother and his wife, Doug and Marg made it too and it was wonderful to see them there.

My Mom's cousin Lynda and her husband Allan came and brought the cake with them... a huge slab cake with all our names on it who were celebrating milestone birthdays this year! Here is a photo of the cake...........
And here is Allan who was sitting next to me and that is why the close up of his head....

Lynda looking lovely as usual.....
The three siblings... Verna, Doug and Barbara...............
We spent about three hours at the restaurant until the visitors started departing for home. Mom and I and Lynda and Allan went back to Mom's where I finished preparing our supper for that evening. Just after eight o'clock my brother Mike and his wife Debbie arrived and the day was completed by their presence.

The next evening us kids took Mom out for supper as our birthday dinner to her. Here are photos taken at the house before we went out.

Mike and Debbie with Mom and our dog Jett...............

And Bruce and Jett...............
Our brother Dave unfortunately couldn't make it during the week as he had work commitments.
He had been there the weekend before to spend time with Mom and take her out for dinner and he brought her some flowers. But.... he surprised us the following weekend by showing up unexpectedly. Thanks Dave for coming... we enjoyed seeing you!!!

For the gift to commemorate the day we designed and produced a 104 page hard copy picture book honoring Mom's life from cradle to present day. There were photos of her as an infant right up to today as well as photos of all those who have figured prominently in her life. The actual book which was still away being printed did not arrive on the day but Mike prepared a digital copy for all of us to see and the book looks amazing. It will be a beautiful coffee table book for Mom to look at and enjoy.

We drove back home to Elliot Lake the following Monday and it was great weather starting out but as we got to Barrie it clouded over and rained again most of the rest of the way although not quite as hard or as steady as it had on the drive down.

Although we enjoyed our time with family you know what they say... there is no place like home!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Milestones


September is a big month for birthdays in my family; 2009 is a big year for milestone birthdays!
The first milestone was Bruce's 55th birthday in May.


Then my 50th birthday in June.


Yesterday (September 21st) would have been my Dad's 80th birthday!! Happy Birthday to You!! Missing you all the time xoxo

Today (September 22nd) is another milestone... my Aunt Verna turns 90. I am beginning to think she is actually aging backwards and getting younger with every passing year. She recently had hip surgery and sailed through that with flying colors and is currently on the mend. We are looking forward to having her here with us for many more birthdays in the years to come. Here are a few photos of Aunt Verna from childhood on..............

My Grandma with two oldest daughters Margaret and Verna; Verna being the younger of the two.
Great Grandma Friend with Margaret and Verna; Verna is the one with the darker hair.
Sisters-- Margaret, Verna and younger sister.... Rhoda

Verna and Rhoda, dressed up and out on the town together
Me with Aunt Verna and my Mom in Redcliff when they came out for a visit

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My Mom is turning 80 also this September 29th. Like the rest of her family she is young for her age. She hasn't slowed down a bit and continues to bowl in two or more leagues a week; enjoys playing bingo and works hard in the local Lion's Club. I have selected some photos of Mom through the years to chronicle her life..........

Obviously the four below are from birth to about four years of age... wasn't she a cutie??


Here is a selection of photos of my Mom when she was a young lady; wasn't she a stylish dresser?



She always looked so smart and well put together.This is back when they used to paint their black and white photos.

My Mom and Dad on their wedding day... April 19, 1951
My Mom holding me.............
Mom and Bruce dressed up and posing for the camera. Photo taken in Massey Ontario.
Mom at the kitchen table. She would say she doesn't take good pictures anymore but I like this one of her.

We will be going down to visit my Mom for her birthday this year. Mike and Debbie will be there and so will cousin Lynda and Allan and maybe other surprise visitors. I hope the memories of the day will remain with her and that she will look back fondly on them for the rest of her life!

Love you Mom!!!!! Happy 80th!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Hello Again... It's Me

I know, I know.... it has been quite a while since I last posted. It has been a very busy summer and it went by oh so quickly and I don't have anything much to bring to show and tell. How sad.
We finally have had some really lovely summer weather the past couple weeks. It has been a long time getting here and I have made sure to take more time to get out and enjoy it. A lot of walking especially and Bruce and I and Jett even went on an adventure on labor day Monday which I will tell you about in a moment.
We had a couple of visits this summer from friends and family. And of course I have been working on fine tuning my health with interesting results. Since my diagnosis back in March I have worked on my diet and exercise plans and have really seen a drop in my blood glucose numbers, in the last couple of weeks especially. I have even been able to dramatically decrease one of my medications as I have been experiencing quite a few lows of late. This was one of my goals and I am happy to say I have reached it and would like to go off of the medication completely one day. Wishful thinking? I hope not.

Now... on to the adventure. There is a lake behind our subdivision called Nordic Lake. There are several ways to get to different areas of the lake by going on paths through the forest. One is across the street from our house but this path would not end up where Bruce wanted to get to so one evening a couple of weeks back he went exploring and found the path which would take him to a spot he wanted to go fishing at. He suggested we pack up a picnic lunch on labor day and the three of us would make a trek through the bush to the spot. We were quite a sight to see.
I think we must have looked a little bit like Huck Finn and Tom Sawyer!! Jett, our dog, is a chihuahua, hardly the adventure seeking, rough and tumble dog breed but he is spunky and weathered the adventure very well I must say!
Here is Jett doing what he likes best... resting!

We had on our hiking boots and gear and our Tilleys to protect our heads from the sun. I planned the menu and packed wieners and all the hot dog paraphernalia to bring along with us and Bruce who picked up a huge backpack earlier this summer packed it with our small Coleman barbecue and his fishing gear and even a chair for me to sit on, most of which he had strapped to his back. I have to say we must have looked comical. Bruce was fully loaded and I had my diabetic kit around my neck and Jett on his leash... Bruce insisted on carrying the cooler and his fishing rods. He can be such a he-manderthal sometimes. We had to walk a ways on the main road past residential houses before we got to the path in the woods. Then it was about a twenty minute walk through very dense brush. It was extremely rocky terrain, some of the paths were quite narrow and somewhat overgrown with trees and brush but they were well marked fortunately. Somebody had previously taken the time to mark the trail so there was no danger of getting lost out there. I found it difficult travelling with the dog in tow. He managed alright but I treaded gingerly over some areas and he was tugging and pulling me along. I was quite nervous about losing my balance and I wised up on the way back and let him off leash to follow along after Bruce. He kept very close by so no need to worry about him taking off and it was much easier for me to make my own way. My biggest concern was coming face to face with a bear but we lucked out and never saw any. After we arrived at our spot guess what I discovered I forgot to bring.... yeah... my camera. What else is new? Really too bad as it would have been nice to get photos of us fully loaded and walking through the thick brush to our final destination. And the spot where we landed was breathtaking. We were perched atop a high rock. This is where Bruce set up my chair for me and we tied little Jett up to a nearby tree and he stayed up top with me while Bruce scrambled down the rock face to the water below to try his hand at fishing. When Bruce's brother Burton was here visiting this is the place they went one of the days to fish.
After a couple of hours we set up the barbecue and Bruce cooked the hotdogs and I did my best to set up the condiments and the other food but there was no where really to do that so we just did the best we could. I thought that perhaps sandwiches would have been easier and would have made our load that much lighter. Hindsight is 20/20. After lunch we cleaned up and Bruce went back down to try his luck at fishing once again. He never did catch anything although he had a couple of nibbles. We saw and heard a beautiful loon who occasionally swam by and then would disappear under the water to try to catch a fish for his lunch and a few minutes later he would turn up again quite a distance away at another part of the lake.
--Photo of Loon on Lake--

This time of year is truly optimal for outdoor activities... it is generally not too hot and there is normally a lovely little breeze. Virtually no bugs to speak of and very little humidity. That day was one of the nicest of the whole summer.
Around mid afternoon we decided to pack up and make our way back home. As we passed by one of the houses along the way a gentleman sitting on his porch inquired as to whether or not Bruce had caught anything since he was carrying his fishing rod! I decided it really wasn't about the fish but more about the time communing with nature and each other. I hope we can do it again before it gets too cold.
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Bruce the Warrior Berry Picker

Bruce has spent a good deal of this summer picking berries for me to put in the freezer so that we have enough for the winter months and we have also eaten fresh berries almost daily. We have many varieties of berries growing wild all over town as well as outside of town, all free for the picking. There are raspberries and black berries growing on one of the paths we walk along daily. We always stop to pick handfuls and enjoy a nice little snack during our walk.
Back to my story... Bruce has several spots here and there to go to pick blackberries. He likes to get there before somebody else gets to them and picks the bushes clean. If he doesn't find any he moves on to one of his other favorite areas. One of the places he likes to go is over to our local ski hill. There are several spots there where the black berries grow. He went the other evening and tried spot number one and found it picked clean so he moved on to another area and found someone there already, picking away.... a huge black bear!! Now I would have obliged the bear and found another spot to pick... far far away from there but Bruce doesn't like to share his bushes with anyone, least of all a bear. So he began waving his arms and yelling at the bear to get out of there. The bear stood his ground and refused to go. Bruce and the bear stood staring at each other for about five minutes... this was Bruce's account so it likely was a much shorter time than that. Eventually the bear stood up on his hind feet to make himself look bigger I would imagine and try to scare Bruce away from his bounty. But Bruce remained undaunted and tried to make himself look larger and continued yelling at and waving his jackknife at the bear. I guess it must have worked because the bear turned and sauntered away and left Bruce to his berry picking. Despite winning the battle Bruce was a bit leery and kept looking over his shoulder just in case the bear decided to come back to teach him a lesson!



Now that summer is pretty much over hopefully life will settle down and I can get back to blogging more regularly. See you next time!!